Thursday, September 4, 2014

Valentine's Day Part 3:Soul Mates, Soul Connections and Twin Flames





Alright, so today is Valentine’s Day so it is only appropriate to focus on aspects of love! I receive questions constantly about Sou

l Mates, Soul Connections and Twin Flames. So here is your Valentine’s Day treat from me.. a little love.

Soul Mates

The Characteristics of what defines a Soul Mate are as follows;

1) You and the person have an instant, unexplainable connection


2) You do things for this person that you would never do before.


3) You feel as though you were brought together.


4) You may feel a past connection, like you knew each other before.

What happens in a Soul Mate Relationship;

1) You will always have problems, issues and lots of obstacles in the way to be together.


2) You will often feel like giving up but have a special “energy” inside you that doesn’t allow you to do so.


3) In the end, no matter the obstacles, you remain together in a partnership until one or both cross-over.

Soul Mates in a nutshell

Soul Mates are people who were “matched up” so to speak. You are meant to be together in a relationship, learn from each other, build a life together in some manner until one or both of you perish. I often tell people that from my perspective, I don’t understand why people “can’t wait” for their soulmates. Because Soul Mate relationships are the most difficult, stressful and often challenged relationships you will ever have in your life!

Now… some disagree with me. But I believe everyone has only 1 Soul Mate per life (as I believe in past lives)

But soulmates are the ones that you can let go and they come back… and sometimes you have to let them go in order to come back!

Soul Connections

The Characteristics of what defines a Soul Connection are as follows;

1) You and the person have an instant, unexplainable connection


2) You do things for this person that you would never do before.


3) You feel as though you were brought together.


4) You may feel a past connection, like you knew each other before.


5) Soul Connections can be friends, family, lovers, co-workers or just about anyone that enters your life.

What happens in a Soul Connection Relationship;

1) You will always have problems, issues and lots of obstacles in the way to be together.


2) You will often feel like giving up but have a special “energy” inside you that doesn’t allow you to do so.


3) In the end the two of you are not destined to be together forever in a relationship or friendship.

Soul Connections in a Nutshell

Soul Connections are sometimes the hardest relationships to figure out. You have all the connections of a Soul Mate relationship but the only differences are that a Soul Connection can be anyone in your life, we can have hundreds of them, and we are not destined to be with them in a relationship. It is someone that comes into your life that you will never forget, and be connected to for the rest of your life.

It is often difficult doing readings on Soul Mates and Soul Connections because they are so similar they can often lead to inaccurate readings, or complicated readings. Sometimes one may have to wait for specific outcomes to define if someone is their Soul Mate or a Soul Connection.

Twin Flames

Now… I personally do not believe in Twin Flames.

It is said however that Twin Flames are one perfect soul, that was then separated into 2. So the souls are basically lost in the world until they are reunited to create that perfect soul again.

For me this is more of a mythical metaphysical explanation of Soul Connections and Soul Mates mixed together. It is basically the belief that once you reach a high enough spiritual plane and you have become a graduated soul then you will meet your Twin Flame here on earth if they have also reached the same Graduated status.

For me, that is way too much work! Yes… we are meant to learn things before we are in a relationship, during and after. We are meant to learn things from our Soul Connections and our Soul Mates but being a ripped apart soul just to suffer until you are reconnected sounds to me like a sorry cosmic joke…. lol

So, in a whole… we make many connections in this life. We make Soul Connections, Soul Mate Connections and if you believe in it Twin Flame Connections… but, remember that no matter who is in your life. None of these connections are possible without you being at your best, and opening up your heart and mind to the possibility that there is more out there for you!


Happy Valentine’s Day. Be sure to tell yourself and the world you love them